Birthday Reflections from a Runner

Good morning all!
Happy 39th to me. My oldest daughter has been sick so we slept together in the spare room last night. She woke at 4:30 and asked for water, and when I returned from the kitchen she said excitedly, “Happy Birthday, mommy!” Then she had a hard time going back to sleep!

I can’t believe I’m 25 30 , well, okay, 39! I’m always amazed each year about how quickly the time goes by in life. About how one day we are thinking we want children and the next we have two.  About how one day we are considering career options and the next day we are celebrating our tenth year anniversary at the same company.

It all happens so quickly! Today I was considering how much running is like life. How the same things that apply to running can apply to life, and vice versa, so today, on my off day of running (I worked on abs and arms instead), I will write about the similarities between running and life.

Hoping you enjoy your day as much as I will. Today is:  Penneys to spend that gift card I got for christmas; grocery store; and then hanging with the family. Tonight: Enjoying some Cab (my round of antibiotics for the bronchitis are over, yay, I can partake in a few glasses of red!) and catching up on the shows that I always tape but never get to watch. Tomorrow we leave for my mom’s house for the weekend. Will post pictures!

How Life and Running are Alike:

  1. To live a good life you have to overcome the obstacles that you come to as you travel, and get back out and do it again even if it takes you down once in a while. Same with running. To have a good run you have to tackle the obstacles and get back out there the next day if the run is a bad one.
  2. In life you have to think positively in order to live the happiest of lives. Same with running-if you want to have a good run, you have to keep positive thoughts on your mind. The minute you begin to think negatively is the minute the run turns sour.
  3. Good friends are important in life, as they are in good runs. They don’t even have to run with you-or run at all! How many times have you spent a good run considering your friends: their generosities, their quirks, their caring.
  4. In life, when something goes bad you have to consider why it went bad and then make changes so this doesn’t happen again. Same with running. If you have a bad run, why was it bad? What can make it better? What should you do the same and what should you change?
  5. Life;s challenges make us stronger. Same with running. You may think you can’t run 26.2. You can. You just have to grow stronger in your conviction that you can.

Hoping all of your runs on my birthday are great ones!

Other News:
We are finishing up the first issue of Active Women’s Network. This is an exciting endeavour and I can’t wait to hear your thoughts. This month we are focusing on the core. I interviewed a great lady today who offered wonderful informatoin about pilates, the core, and why it should be strengthened (and not just because you want to look good in a bikini, though that certainly doesn’t hurt!)

Happy Running!

4 Miles, a Hair Cut, a Birthday, and an Interview- Oh My!

Recovery Runs:

If you have been sick, take it easy breaking back into the game. I took four days off for bronchitis. I got back out yesterday, pushing the baby stroller at an easy pace for three miles, a few minutes of which I walked.  Felt good enough to actually get back out today. I did four miles, another easy pace, listening to my body to make sure it was okay.  I felt like I had my breath back-big relief! I was pretty scared with this last cold, or whatever it was. For some reason my body, which usually holds up under everything, caved , and I spent the entire day Saturday in bed.

Have you noticed your immune system when running? It seems to be great when you are doing a lot of shorter distances but when I push myself really hard it caves. Ouch! It is good to be back.

Birthday:

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Holy crap batman, I’m going to be 39 freaking years old tomorrow! 39! This means:

  • I was born a long, long time ago!
  • I graduated high school more than half of my life ago!
  • I’ve been able to buy beer for 18 years!
  • I’ve been living on my own for longer than I lived with my folks!
  • I’m one year away from 40! ONE YEAR!
  • Chances could be that i’m half of my life over already-no, no, slow down life!
  • I’m competing against the fastest women in races!

Where did the time go? I reflect this question each year because it just seems it goes so fast.

My mom sent this beautiful card to me. It told me how much she appreciates my sense of adventure and how much I live life. It made me cry. She sees that in me, and appreciates it, and it is truly my favorite quality that I see in myself.  That she sees it and loves it is so incredible.

39. Getting older, but getting faster! I run a minute and a half per mile faster than I did when I started running 12 years ago!

39. Not so bad. Yea, I’ll take it!

Excitement:

So I got an exciting email yesterday! I wrote something about frugality and exercise and First magazine is calling today for an interview! I’ll let you know details about publication when I hear something. Now, if I could get a job writing for them that would be great!

Hair Cut:

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I’m getting my haircut today. I want a shorter bob. I’m nervous but excited! I hope it turns out the way I envision it. Oh well, if it doesnt at least it will be different :0) I’ll post pictures when I can.  This is what I like.

Of course this girl is gorgeous (who is she anyway, Kristin Cavalleri, have not heard of her?) So I’m hoping that the haircut will look great on me despite the fact that I’m not young, blond and a knockout lol!

Gotta run, not literally-kids up soon and it is a busy day. Hope to post some new haircut photos tomorrow!

Feeling Under the Weather? How to Tell When You Shouldn’t Run!

As the mother to two young daughters, we’ve had our fair share of illnessess over the past five years. We’ve been through hand foot and mouth (ewww!), the flu, vomiting episodes, coughs and colds and congestion.

I’ve usually been lucky when it comes to being sick. I never get anything. My husband laughs about it, says that there must be something strange thing in my blood that fights off infection because everyone can be throwing up on me (during our cross country trip this was the case) and yet I don’t get sick!

Until this week.

It started with a cough and sore throat, and then it went into my chest. I woke up on Thursday night with a rattling inside that frightened me. I thought of my good friend Karen that died last year of pneumonia and I freaked out.

The next day, when I heard that same rattling in my daughter’s chest, I packed us up and headed to the doctor’s office.

I’m glad I did. My daughter had an ear infection and I had bronchitis. We were sent home with some medicine and I went to bed, where I remained all of yesterday, sleeping in this really crazy haze where I couldn’t tell if I was awake or asleep.

Today I’m feeling a bit better. I’m still weak and tired, but I do not feel like I need to go back to sleep (yet!). I’m coming out of the fog sickness, so to speak. I’m glad to have a glimmer of the other side, and I’m interested to understand how sick I have been and yet didn’t understand or face how sick I was until I was completely worn out!

I say that is because I’m a mother and we have so much to take care of that we can’t really ever be sick, but I also know this is the mind of a runner as well. I mean, who else can say they are going to run 26 miles, suffer from stomach issues and blisters and sore muscles?

So how can you tell when you should run and when you should hang up your shoes for a day or two?

  • If you are running a fever, stay home. Running with a fever is not a good idea, since running will raise your temperature anyway. Plus if you have a fever you are going to need to drink lots of fluids to avoid dehydration, and if you are running you are going to have to do the same thing.  If you are sick enough to have a fever, you should be letting your body rest. Period!
  • Coughing is not so bad-wet coughing, not so good. If the cold has moved into your chest you should take it easy to make sure it doesn’t get worse.
  • Snuffy nose? Go ahead and run. But if it is making your head hurt, take a day off. Nothing more brutal than a sinus headache on pounding feet.
  • Lacking energy? If it is more than just, ” I don’t feel like running,” then don’t run. You shouldn’t be out there pounding the pavement when your body needs to rest. If you are tired, get some rest.
  • Listen to your body above all. This week I knew my runs were shot. By Friday morning I knew there was no way I could work out. I took the day off, and have not run since Thursday. As runners I think we are very in tune to our bodies-we have to be, I think, to avoid injury. If you are not feeling ‘right’ then take a day of rest. It’s not going to set you back and in fact will probably help improve your running if you are only running when you feel good.

Now, I am heading to bed for some much needed rest-again! I said I would run tomorrow if I felt better, but at this point it may be Tuesday or Wednesday since just washing the dishes took it out of me this morning!

Happy running this weekend!